A random collections of blog posts, articles and other things I think are worth sharing.
Huffington Post: 3 Things That Happen When You Stop Taking Things Personally ( I’ve gotten pretty good at this—with the exception of my kids…still working on that one. It’s fairly hard to offend me these days because I don’t take anything personally. Call it enlightenment or…too many years in a newsroom, but…I learned a long time ago that anger and insults directed at me are not about me.)
The Mighty: When I Realized What I Say Isn’t Always What My Son With ADHD Hears (I think this might be true for all kids, actually….ADHD or not).
Factrider: Signs You’re Arguing with a Psychopath (It’s election season…you may want to bookmark this.)
Hands-Free Mamma: The Single Most Important Parenting Action We Can Take Today (Oh…how I wish I could be more like Rachel).
This song (below) is me this week. I tried to “blog ahead” but that didn’t happen. Heck, I can’t even blog in real time these days. So…anyway…just enjoy the music, eh?
Rest assured I’ll return with all kinds of stories. (But will I have time to write them? *sigh*)
Things I’m loving this week
Snowshoeing. If you’re going to live in this snowy city, you may as well learn to love the winter. Skiing is fine, but I hate driving to the lodge and paying for a trail pass. But for a $100-$120 investment in snowshoes, there’s no end to the dozens of free public trails you can tromp around in Erie County. I always work up a sweat (though good boots & good gloves are key). I also really enjoy the silence to be found in the stillness of winter woods. It’s often ridiculously beautiful, too (particularly after a fresh snowfall).
Veggie-lasagna-stuffed portobellos. I’m currently obsessed with these, and that means a lot coming from me because this recipe requires me to dirty a baking pan, a bowl, AND a frying pan! Look for portobellos at Aldis. They cost a fortune at Giant Eagle (I just paid $6 for two small caps).
Swim Meets. Aside from the screaming parents and that one coach with the ear-splitting whistle, I’m really enjoying swim meets. I don’t love sitting for hours on end, but…at least I’m warm. I could be one of those poor soccer moms in the pouring rain or cheerleader moms sitting in the snow at football games.
Things I’m not loving this week
“Under the Banner of Heaven” by John Krakauer. I loved John’s book “Into the Wild,” so I thought this book — about Fundamentalist Mormons (read: plural wives) — would be fascinating. At first, it was (in a revolting-fascinating way), but then it just got boring and so convoluted and sad…. I just decided to stop. I rarely do that, but…meh…my reading time is too precious to spend it reading something I don’t enjoy.
Vacation prep. Every time, I plan a big family vacation I think…I’m never doing this again because it’s just not worth the hassle and hours and hours of planning/preparation. I’m sure I’ll change my tune once I get back, but…
A random collections of blog posts, articles and other things I think are worth sharing.
Hello Giggles: Hilariously honest teacher responses to common student questions (This is why, as much as I’d like to have summer off, I could never be a teacher. Also, I gag at the smell of dirty hair, so that eliminates me from the classroom right there).
Adequate man: How to Drive in the Snow, In a Regular-Ass Car, Without Freaking Out (Warning: this is full of profanity, but also full of real truth and funny as heck).
Scary Mommy: 15 of the Week’s Funniest Mom Tweets
I’ve participated in the Highmark Quad (Swim, bike, run, ski) several times, but I’ve only ever had to do the ski portion once (thank you, Mother Nature!).
I did it three years ago at the Peek and, well…friends, I’ll just say it, it was terrifying. It was icy and the course was fast and I had no idea how to stop, besides skiing into deep snow or a tree. I wish I were kidding, but I’m not. (Snowplow…I know, but…what can you PLOW when there is no snow on the course?) I even wrote about it. Read my whole
hilarious, er, sad account here.
I’ll admit it soured me on the Quad.
But then, they moved the ski event to the Wilderness Lodge which had become sort of a home base for us the past few years as the girls participated in the Wilderness Wildcats Cross-Country team. (BTW, the Wildcats is a FABULOUS program for kids/teens.) I briefly pondered doing it last year, but…I chickened out.
This year, new Quad director Kelly Latimer flat out flattered me onto the course, talking Pam Parker and I (current and past editors of the Erie Times-News’ Her Times magazine) to do the 2.5 mile snowshoe together. Latimer clearly learned a few things from her father-in-law, Craig (former Quad director), who was also known to be a very likable and confoundingly persuasive guy (a true marketing guy).
Flattery and the prospect of a couple hours of uninterrupted adult girlfriend-talk time and maybe a post-race beer will get you everywhere with me, so I told Pam I’d do it if she would and we agreed to strap on a pair and give it a go on Sunday at the final event in the 2015/2016 Quad games.
It was pretty awesome, as evidenced by the genuine smiles in this “after” photo:
The location. You’d be hard-pressed to find another ski lodge that offers what the Wilderness Lodge can — snow that sticks around (the lodge is in some weird pocket that allows it to keep what it gets for a long time) with acres and acres of old-growth forest and well-groomed and interesting trails. And the eclectic lodge itself is pretty awesome, too (more on that below).
This photo doesn’t even begin to do the scenery justice.
The event. This will come as no surprise to you, I liked the snowshoe a whole lot better than the ski. Really, anyone can snowshoe. And you can pick up a set of shoes for less than (or a little over) $100.
The course. There weren’t a ton of hills on the course, but there were enough to make you sweat a little. Because we were walking on the side of the groomed trails, it was easier shoeing that what I’m used to (tromping through a foot or more of snow in the woods).
The organization. The whole event was really well organized, but I will say that if I weren’t familiar with the lodge, I might have been confused about where to go (registration was in the Wilderness Wildcats room below the ski rental, not in the lodge). I actually thought the event started at 2, so we arrived pretty late (my bad) and just in time to strap on our shoes and go. (I also thought the event was Saturday, so…moral of this story: Always double check when I tell you the date or time for something, k? *kiss kiss*)
The porta potties. There’s only one bathroom in the Wildcats room and one with two stalls in the main lodge, so….additional porta potties located outside the rental shop were a smart call and money well spent, in my opinion.
The volunteers. Friendly, helpful, smart, efficient. I was pretty impressed with every volunteer we came in contact with, but was especially impressed with some of the “road marshals” who were standing out there directing participants in the cold. Word has it many of the volunteers were from the Erie Tri Club (you guys– and girls — rock!).
The weather. Wow…we could not have asked for better weather than we had on Sunday. Clear and cold, but not too cold. It was a little windy in the open fields (always is), but was sweet once we got between the treelines.
The timing. Big White Trailer is the best. Results were posting before we even had our snowshoes off.
The post-race lodge fun. I love the lodge — the noise, the warmth, the old photos on the wall, the mismatched coffee mugs from all over the world, the snowmobilers mixing it up with the skiers, the wait staff screaming out people’s names to pick up their orders, and, of course, that cracking fire in the center of it all, where everyone dries their gear and warms their butts.
I’m reaching here because none of these are really “bad,” but…
I was overdressed. I had on running tights, snowpants, an under armour tank and a fleece-lined microfiber LL Bean jacket, and I was sweating pretty quick. I got so hot that I took off my gloves and I would’ve taken off my hat, too, but….(see “The ugly” below). Tights, Under Armour and a windbreaker probably would’ve been enough.
The drive there. Look, I’ll be honest. The drive to the lodge sucks. Now, this may be just the way that I go there (which I’m told is the “hills and thrills” version), but there is no “easy” way to get to the lodge. The roads are really hilly, not well-maintained (read: long after the snow had fallen…it’s still there) and there’s no signage pointing you where to go (unless you count the little blue “cross country skier” signs you see randomly along the way). That said, good luck finding a ski lodge that is easy to get to or doesn’t involved driving up and down snow- or ice-covered hills. On a good day, like it was Sunday, the drive is fine….pleasant (and quite beautiful), in fact.
Parking. Meh. I hate to even add this to the list because where could you put the influx of traffic from a couple hundred people for an afternoon event? The lodge actually doubled their parking lot a couple years ago, which is great for busy weekends, but, of course, even if they expanded it four-fold it couldn’t contain all the Quad participants. The good news is…there’s a least a mile of road parking on each side of the lodge.
Southern Tier on tap. Um…here’s a PSA: The Southern Tier Brewing beer on tap at the lodge (I think it was Old Man Winter...it could’ve been 2Xmas) has a 7.5% alcohol content. Just letting you know. It was really, really good beer, but just don’t let it go down too fast, if you know what I’m sayin’.
My hair after taking off my sweaty hat. ’nuff said.
Quad 2015/16 results & photos
- See complete results from Sunday’s event and the entire Quad series here.
- See photos from GoErie’s Street View here and from the Erie Times-News here.
- Read ETN’s coverage of Sunday’s event and see video here.
Note: If you choose to do the snowshoe, you are considered a “fitness participant” and you’re not in the running for the overall Quad title because, well, it wouldn’t be fair. The snowshoe is half the distance and probably requires half the skill/energy of the ski race.
Ready to do the Quad?
After a fun snowshoe event, I’m planning to talk/bully/persuade/bribe at least one of my daughters, if not both, into doing the Quad this year. The first event — a 100 yard swim at Edinboro University (4 lengths of the pool) — will be held in April. When this year’s info is available, it will be posted here. You can also like them on Facebook.
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